Archive for February, 2011

How To Deal With Pushy Messages

18 Feb

Having to deal with pushy messages is something that a lot of people have to deal with from time to time on dating sites. You will find that there are a few different things that you will be able to do to try to get this resolved and moved on quickly and easily.


The first thing that you can do is simply try to ignore the messages. If you were on the fence about this person to begin with, then simply be done with them and move on. If a person is pushy right off the bat, then they are more than likely going to be like that throughout the relationship. Simply ignore the messages and they will eventually stop.


It may get to a point where you actually have to block this person. If you have tried to ignore their messages and do not feel comfortable receiving or sending messages to them then you will need to make sure that all communication to and from this person is completely blocked so that they cannot bother you again.

Message Back

If the person that is being pushy is somebody that you really like or if you simply want to tell them to cut it out, then send them your own message. Tell them that you do not appreciate the way that they are talking to you or the amount of messages that they are sending. They may not realize how they are coming across so try to be firm but polite.